Dysfunctional Families

Dysfunctional families are common to both the introduction of cracking Expectations, by Charles Dickens and The sugarcoat Menagerie, by Tennes beguile Williams. A family is a basic social unit consisting of more than one human being. Functional families co-operate with one another to sustain a glad and nurturing home life that is comforting and a pleasure to be in. Members of a functional family genuinely care for one anothers safety and wellbeing. A dysfunctional family is the opposite of a functional family.In Great Expectations there are dickens dysfunctional families, Joe Gardgerys family including Miss Joe, touch and Joe himself and Miss Havershams family, which consists of her and her choose daughter, Estella. Technically, the escaped convict, greetn as Magwitch, his wife and daughter could be considered as dysfunctional too. Their family is not as predominant as the other two families. In The glass in Menagerie, Tom, Laura, Amanda and Amandas absent husband are with al a dysfunctional family. Family is important to the main(prenominal) characters in each of these texts, as it is the source of their values, ethics and beliefs.Tom Wingfield, from The Glass Menagerie, is a young man who wants to explore the human race and go on breathtaking adventures. His father left field his fuss, Amanda, for this reason when Tom was a young boy. Tom has been the man of the house ever since. The Glass Menagerie is set in St Louis, USA, in a time where women did not have frequently power in mens business. Amanda has a capriole selling magazines over the phone, which does not earn her enough money for the family to live off. Tom, therefore, works in a shoe factory, which is not the most exciting job in the world, and this is the main source of income for the family.Laura Wingfield is Toms older sister she is 26, crippled and lives in her own world full of tiny fragile drinking glass animals, along with an old victrola. Laura is the main source of conflict for the family because she aimlessly wanders through life with no purpose. During Toms time at home, there are some(prenominal) conflicts between him and his mother. This affects Tom, as he works long hours in the warehouse doing the akin thing bothday. He then comes home to a mother who is constantly telling him what to and what no to do, as well as a sister who isnt pulling her own weight.Amanda often criticises Toms behaviour. In the first scene nearly e reallything Amanda says to Tom is a command for example, such as wear outt push with your fingers, chew chew Human beings are supposed to chew, Youre not excused from the table and You smoke too more than(prenominal). These constant commands from Amandas point of view are caring, however, Tom that specifys of them as her trying to control his every move he is at the destroy of his wick. In Scene Three, Tom lets Amanda know once and for all what he thinks of the situation. Amanda What right do you have to jeopardize y our job?Jeopardize the security of us all? How do you think wed manage if you were. Tom interrupts Id rather somebody battered my brains out than go back (the warehouse) every morning and you say self is all I think of. Why, listen, if self is what I thought of, Mother, Id be where he is (points to fathers portrait) GONE In the end it is all too much for Tom and he leaves his helpless sister and commanding mother. He ventures off into the world homogeneous father like son Belonging to a dysfunctional family has deeply affected Tom and has eventually made him leave.Laura Wingfield, from The Glass Menagerie, is shy, unconfident, crippled and she often withdraws from reality. This is because she belongs to a dysfunctional family. Her mother has tried to help her by sending her to business school and finding her a gentlemen caller. Unfortunately, these are not Lauras visions for herself, theyre Amandas. Although Amanda genuinely loves Laura, she undersidenot see that her bossy and overpowering personality is making Laura withdraw herself from reality even further. Laura hold inped going to business school because it made her sick and she didnt tell her mother, as she knew it would upset her.A mature young adult, firstly, would not become unwell because they attended a business school secondly, they would tell their mother they didnt want to attend the school anymore, and quit. Laura, on the other hand, pretends for weeks that she still attends the school leaving and arriving home when appropriate, to make her mother believe she is still care the school. When Amanda finally finds out Laura stopped going because it made her a little unwell, it broke her heart. Amanda So what are we going to do the rest of our lives? Amuse ourselves with the glass menagerie, darling?Eternally play those worn-out phonograph records your father left as a painful reminder of him? Lauras response to this painful trueness is silence and the twisting of her hands try forless Wit h her mother and brother constantly bickering, she doesnt seem to get the chance to speak her thoughts and feelings. Her mother tells her what she is going to do with her life, and because she loves her mother, she just does as she is told. Over time this has affected Laura it is the reason she lost her personality and become a ghost-like figure living in a world of glass animalsMost of the time Laura doesnt have her own thoughts, this is another side effect of having a dysfunctional family. One night her mother asks her to stop washing the dishes and to come outside and adore the moon Amanda Laura, come here and make a deal on the moon Look over your left shoulder, Laura, and make a wish (Laura looks faintly puzzled as if called out of sleep. Amanda seizes her shoulders and turns her at an angle by the door) Now, now, darling, wish Laura What should I wish for, Mother? here(predicate) the moon is a symbol of hope.Amanda has found the moon because she has found hope hope that h er children will be okay in this cruel world. Laura cant find the moon her mother has to point it out to her and physically move her so she can see it. This is symbolic of the fact that there is no hope for Laura as she cant and wont help herself in this life. As Tom says She lives in a world of her own a world of little glass ornaments, Mother She plays old phonograph records and thats about all. Amanda has to tell Laura what to wish for a grown woman being told what to wish forThis shows us how feeble and unsure Laura is of her actions. It is yet another problem Laura has developed because she is a part of a dysfunctional family. bit, Joe Gargery and Mrs Joe Gargery are a dysfunctional family from the novel, Great Expectations, by Charles Dickens. The first half of the novel is set in England, in the acres, a place of innocence. The second half is set in the sinful and backstabbing streets of grotty old London. Pip is an orphan his parents and five of his other siblings die d when he was very little.His older sister and her husband (Mr and Mrs Joe Gargery) adopted Pip (who says) My Sister had established a great reputation with herself and the neighbourhood because she had brought me up by hand. Knowing her to have a hard and heavy hand, and to be much in the habit of pose it upon her husband as well as upon me. I supposed that Joe Gargery and I were both brought up by hand. Pip tells the reader that his older sister often hit him and Joe. This of course was never done when a neighbour was in earshot ecause, as Pip said, the villagers respected her because she brought him up by hand. She also never did or said anything nice to him he can remember this from a young age. My sisters bringing up had made me sensitive. I had known, from the time when I could speak, that my sister, in her capricious and violent coercion, was unjust to me. She spoke harshly to him, hit him with the tickler (which was a stick used only for defeat up Pip and Joe) and fo rce-fed him tar water (a very nasty medicine) to serve as punishments, for acts that did not deserve punishment.Because of this, he is often unsure of his actions and easily persuaded to think and do things that, deep down, he may not feel are right. This is similar to Laura, from The Glass Menagerie. Unfortunately Laura didnt have a caring, patient and super loving blacksmith in her life, unlike Pip, who has Joe. If Joe was not in Pips life, I am sure he would have turned out much like Laura. Joe loves Pip and genuinely cares for him, he is pure and shows many acts of kindness towards Pip, most of which Pip doesnt acknowledge or notice.Towards the end of the novel Pip becomes extremely sick whilst in London. Joe finds out that Pip is sick, leaves his belove town in the country and heads into London. This is a big task for Joe because as a country mouse he does not belong in the city he despises it, and vice versa. Joe then stays by Pips side for the many months it takes for Pip t o recover. After Pip finally acknowldges Joes true love for him, Pip says O Joe, you break of serve my heart Look angry at me, Joe. adopt me, Joe. Tell me of my ingratitude. Dont be so good to me Joe just hugs Pip because he is relieved that Pip has recovered. Joe is the most important character for Pips health, safety and wellbeing. Without Joe, Pip would be in prison with a sickness that only love could cure and a debt to his name that he would never be able to repay. Joe is his guardian angel. Estella and Miss Haversham, from the novel Great Expectations, are yet another dysfunctional family. The cause of this dysfunctional family is Miss Havershams want revenge on the world because her husband-to-be left her at their wedding, breaking her heart.Miss Haversham adopted Estella as a young girl, not out of love, rather so she can could mould her into a cold-hearted witch like herself. Miss Haversham is rich and belongs to the upper middle class. Her house is a manor, and she is a well respected house physician in Pips village. Miss Haversham invites Pip to her house a few times. Pip thinks she is his benefactor, the cause of his great expectations and the reason she asks him to go over. She really only invites him over to let Estella practice her cruel, cold-blooded personality on him.The first time Pip goes over to Miss Havershams, on her command, she gets him to play cards with Estella. Estalla doesnt want to play with a common labouring-boy , so Miss Haversham tempts her to play with him by saying Well? You can break his heart. Here we can see the effects of Miss Havershams cold, broken heart on Estella. Instead of wanting to make friends with Pip like a normal young girl, she wants to break his heart. This child would not have thought of this naturally, her mind has been trained to believe that in making peoples lives a living hell, you arouse a sense of satisfaction.Estellas family has had a big impression on her values, morals and beliefs. You are t o wait here, you boy the tears started to my eyes. the girl looked at me with a quick delight in having been the cause of them. Estella makes Pip believe his clothes, hands and the way he speaks is peculiar and shameful. The family life Miss Haversham has made for Estella is not physically or mentally levelheaded for her. To add to this, Miss Haversham wears a mouldy bride dress, her house stinks of gone-off food and human body odour and it is dark and depressing.She doesnt shower because she wears her wedding clothes family after year. This gives Estella a bad impression as her home life is not normal, her mother is deranged and loosing her mind. Miss Haversham does such a great job of teaching Estella to become a witch that Estella leaves her for good. This breaks Miss Havershams already broken heart and she kills herself. This doesnt bother Estella how inhumane In both The Glass Menagerie and Great Expectations, the main characters have lost a loved one.Pip and Estella neve r knew their biological parents, Miss Havershams husband-to-be never showed up at their wedding, Joe loses Mrs Joe Gargery, Laura and Toms dad leaves them and Amandas husband leaves her with a crippled daughter and a son. Losing a loved one or someone who is a close relative adversely affects you. All of these characters are can be compared to one another because they all know what it feels like to lose a loved one and belong to a dysfunctional family. In each case, dysfunctional families affect the main characters.Tom leaves his family, Laura makes herself belong to a world of her own, Pip yearns for a justice that was always present and Estella follows the footsteps of a heartless witch. It is apparent that dysfunctional families can be the cause of losing a family member or one leaving. To me family is very important. Fortunately I have a functional family. We sometimes fight and argue, however it is always over issues that are forgotten and easily forgiven. I know that if a memb er of my family was to leave us it would definetly affect me. I am glad that every family member in my family is happy and healthy.In both of the texts, the main cause of a dysfunctional family is having lost a family member. This is true for some families I know. Lots of parents divorce and their kids are forever living in two houses. Sometimes it is for the better, as the kids dont have to listen to the parents fighting. Sometimes it tears the kids hearts and they are too young to understand that their parents simply cant be together anymore. The kids find a way into their own world, like Laura, or they take it out on others, like Estella, or they are blessed and in their reality is a Joe, who loves them and sees a way out for them to escape.